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Do you have to have a known name? Be an old southern family? I mean my family has more money and a bigger house than my friends but how would actives know that?

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...do you really want to be in a house that wants you for your money?

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no but if i like a house that takes money into consideration then...

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Lol if you're from old money then you'd know and honestly you wouldn't be coming to a school like Alabama. I'm from the Northeast and it's funny to see kids here talk about "old money" when really they're just upper middle class.

Money doesn't matter. Does it play a role in rush? Not necessarily... Houses just want to see that you have money to be able to pay dues and other sorority expenses. And in your case, it seems like you're fine.

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"Old money" doesn't always mean "fabulously wealthy" -- while yes, there are many people in the south who are as wealthy as people from the northeast (think Atlanta, Dallas) old money in the south has more to do with history, hence "old." If your great great whatever grandpa made it big when the railroad first came to Mobile and your family still lives in Mobile and has been cultivating the family fortune, that's old money. If you lived in the Great Northeast and were technically upper middle class fine but that's not all that matters.

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Are you seriously trying to say girls in the Old Row houses came from families that had slaves?

Please stop. You are embarrassing yourself. If your dad is a surgeon and your mom built her own company you definitely had a leg up to get in an Old Row house. Sounds like either your GPA sucked, you were not even remotely popular in high school and you’re not cute/trendy/classy enough to have gotten a bid, so now you’re bitter.

No one’s families owned slaves. Just stop.

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“No one’s families owned slaves.”

Oh lord. Are you denying slavery occurred? Is this ignorance or denial?

I will say that I love my experience at Bama and in my house but their is a large group of OR girls from Southern states that share this logic and really do think they are better than any non-Southern girl because of their class and it’s the weirdest thing ever.

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by: Honestly, shut up   

Plot twist: I didn’t want OR.

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if ur family had slaves long ago

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Not cool

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by: @no   

that's what i think of when i hear "old southern money"

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But the person who referenced slavery and it's relation to old money is correct. If your family has roots in the South and is considered to be of "old money" then it's more than likely that your family owned slaves at one point. And/or your family is in the oil industry (more popular in Texas).

Stop being offended by the truth.

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by: TBH   

Yep, every Southerner who flexes on other people about their old money is basically flexing their family’s history as slave owners. That is a FACT.

You can’t undo what generations before you did but use some good taste and stop flexing that BS on others like it makes you better.

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by: Marcellus   

No one ever got rich off of oil or, idk, COAL, in the northeast????

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TJ Bunn Jr.

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y'all need to realize there's a difference between being generally wealthy and bring from old money. tj bunn jr is not from old money. him and his family work at a construction company, maybe they're wealthy but they're not old money.

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You’re right. The only difference is that his family didn’t originate their wealth off the backs of slaves. The rest of the mindset fits.

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If you need to ask, you aren't.

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Don't get confused.....

There is money
There is power and influence
There is good taste and manners
And there is pedigree

And a completely different thing is popularity and magnetism.

All are mutually exclusive, but frequently these things come in packages

when old row is associated with "old money" I think allot of people are simply describing enough money to pay dues and "keep up" with clothes, and trips, etc. (upper middle class) with some desire to maintain good taste and manners.

No house has all 400 members that rank high on theses scales to the last girl. However, the better houses have a higher measures of the above in some form.


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When will people learn that the south isn’t where most of the “old money” is. If your family was considered old money in the same sense of the kind found in the North, 90% was probs lost in the civil war or its aftermath. If you want the real old money girls look up north, and see they ain’t coming to bama and pledging kappa kappa kappa

By: Truth
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You are just showing your ignorance.

The south has some of the last remaining old money towns - think Savanah, Charleston, parts on New Orleans.

You can get an equal dose of “not from here” attitude in these areas as you can in Nantucket.

Frankly, the NE old money cliques are more diluted and weak in comparison to some of these southern hold outs.

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by: Truth    

I’m not saying there are not very wealthy families in that area that have been wealthy for generations but when looking at the industries that usually equate to a family being old money (fur trade, railroad, mining, steel, banking, shipping) with the exception of oil, those are not historically large industries in the south. Ofc ur gonna fine some posers in cape cod but let me know when a Vanderbilt or Carnegie signs up for rush at bama.
Again I’m not trying to call the south a poor region by any means, I myself am from a small town in West Virginia, but it’s just a fact that the old money families of America are not southerners

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by: Hahaha    

Vanderbilt and Carnegie. LOL. What you do, read a book one time.

Seriously, you dont have a clue. .

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Old money kids here have the same mindset of the Murdaugh family. And, they all live in towns like the Murdaughs where they were the big players in a small Southern town.

If they had gone to school here, I guarantee the men of the Murdaugh family would be DKEs, and the women would be KD, KKG or AXO (if they had top grades). You know, because they are “the best” with all the right connections and manners.

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by: Ha!!   

LOL Murdaugh vibes. That’s a perfect description.

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by: Equal   

Equating the Murdaughs with “the best” absolutely sums this up!

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Where are the sane OR alumni and mamas at to say something to denounce the comments here by OR actives?

OR sororities that brag about their old money and old money connections: KD, KKG, AXO, XO and to a lesser extent DDD and AGD but they have been way more open minded and inclusive.

Someone needs to come and get your girls.

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by: Huh   

The idea that these girls are “old” money is just laughable.

I’ll give them southern morales and manners at best.

But old money isn’t in mega-churches!

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