If you really do not like a house you get for Pref
by: Been thereIf you really, really do not/cannot see yourself in that house and would not be proud to wear their letters, DO NOT sign them on your MRABA!!! Your Pi Chis will really encourage you not to SIP and there is a definitely a risk that you'll end up with nothing, but if you just don't like a house, don't do it. It's not fair to you or to the girls in that house. If you put them on your card and end up with them, you can try going to Bid Day and maybe you'll see things differently and like it, but you'll know pretty quickly if it's a fit. If you still don't feel like they're your people, DO NOT INITIATE! Again, you'll feel a lot of pressure and get caught up in things and the next thing you know, you're an initiated member and you'll never be able to be in any other sorority. I speak from experience. I ended up in a house I tried to drop the whole time and kept going against my gut/letting myself get talked into sticking it out and I was miserable and finally dropped a year later and a lot of my sisters dropped soon after. There is more to life than being Greek. Don't try to fit in where you don't.
Comment#3 by: Close but
Only do this for those reasons and be prepared for zero bid because it does NOT increase your chance of getting the house you suicide for - it just guarantees you won’t get the house you think you are too good for, and maybe no house. If you do this, you also won’t get a snap call that day so proceed w caution
#4 by: For reals
Seriously? TRUST me you would much rather have NO House than some of the pathetic excuses for a Sorority! They get you vested in the process and then screw 33% of the PNN's over by Prefing them for houses they have already stated they were not interested in.
Why is that? It's the only way bottom tier gets members AKA $$$
by: YikesAug 22, 2021 9:52:28 AM
by: Wow...Aug 23, 2021 7:17:19 PM
Bitter much, biotch? You must be a real charmer...Looks like your former house got lucky when you bailed. Good for them!
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#5 by: maybenot
I don't agree with this. At this point you've only spent a little over 2 hours in a house and only talked to a handful of girls out of hundreds. There is time to learn to love it and meet your friends. You've Made it this far so you might as well give it a shot. Worse case scenario, it's not your vibe and you drop before initiation
by: Will have to waitAug 21, 2021 11:10:10 PM
If you accept a bid and decide to drop before Initiation, you can’t do anything until Formal Rush the next year.
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by: Will have to waitAug 21, 2021 11:10:20 PM
If you accept a bid and decide to drop before Initiation, you can’t do anything until Formal Rush the next year.
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#6 by: Yikes
This actually lowers your chances of getting the house you want because you won’t be eligible as a quota addition. It means you HAVE to be high enough on the bid list of the house you want. If you weren’t high enough on either chapter’s list, the algorithm takes the PNMs choice into a higher consideration so you’re more likely to be added to the one you want. You only get option B if you’re higher on their bid list and above the quota cut off.
But you do you boo.
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by: WrongAug 21, 2021 11:05:38 PM
It’s not true that if you Suicide you won’t get a snap bid. If you put down more than 1 house on your MRABA, you will NOT be able to get a snap bid or do Spring Rush. You will have to wait until
Rush in August of next year.
If you SIP, you might get a Snap Bid or you can do COB or Spring Rush. Each year some really good sororities offer Spring Rush.
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