rushing as a junior transfer

I also rushed as a junior and ended up preffing a sorority that according to greekrank is “top” and a sorority that is considered “bottom”. The houses had we’re polar opposites and honestly I didn’t feel like I belonged in either of them. I hate that it is this way, but it did hurt my self esteem for a while. It honestly was really hard and emotionally draining, but it’s definitely not impossible to find the house for you. It doesn’t hurt to try, but just know there are quotas that make it a lot more difficult for upperclassmen, especially juniors, SO DONT TAKE ANYTHING PERSONAL (I know it’s hard not to)!! Go in with an open mind and be yourself!!! Also if it doesn’t work out for you I promise there are a billion other things you can get involved with on campus & Greek life isn't everything, even if it feels like it is. Good luck :))