how do we handle helicopter moms?

No doubt - TCU is the helicopter mom capital of the world. If you don't have a hyper involved mother you are strange at this school. It is even more magnified in the Greek System. Of course this women are just trying to help. Wouldn't it be great if we 1) Found a way to harness their energy to enhance our system in a way that we direct. 2) Start setting real boundaries for their behavior and how much they can medal in Greek life. 3) Keep the status quo.
This is NO DISRESPECT to all the amazing moms who volunteer and support their daughters. They are ALL fantastic women with their hearts in the right place. But we do need to start steering this ship.