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Remember to be open to every house that you visit. Forget any rumors you have heard because all that matters is that you end up with real lifetime sisters. You want a house where you feel welcome and wanted so be real so the houses can get to know you. If you follow this advise and are gracious to every house that invites you back you should be fine. Never fall for stupid tricks like believing there is only one house you would accept and just put that one down. On Pref Day list ALL houses on your final list in your desired order and you WILL get a bid from ONE of them. Even if you don't get an invite from the house you thought you wanted, as time passes you will realize the girls in the house know what type of girl fits with them best and that you did join the right house. Be yourself and be open to all houses and you will be set!

Helpful and accurate post.

Great advise to PNM'S

Seems like they filled you in well with the first answer.

You can't really know what house fits you best. You are going off rumors, brief interactions or what someone else's experience has been. Be yourself and put your best foot forward at every house that invites you back. Do not be fooled into commiting suicide where a soroiety tells you to just put them down on pref day and they promise you a bid. If you do that, you may end up with no bid. Otherwise, put every house down you have left on Pref Day and you will be matched with the girls who want you most. If you do this you will get a bid.

Follow this advise and you will be fine.

Be polite to every house and do not come in like you get to choose. Be gracious to any house that invites you back and list all your choices on pref day. If you do this you will get a bid in a house that values you and where you will find true sisterhood.