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It's wrong to call people out anonymously. Really? Because that's exactly what she does. ESPECIALLY when they have NO clue it's happening. I feel so sorry for PNM's next year if she does become a Gamma Chi. This is a serious situation girls need to be aware of and I'm glad this site has brought attention to it. DG should not have offered a bid to this girl.

I'm not defending anything she's said or done. Honestly I've never read it, just seen people freaking out about this on here. What I'm saying is stooping to the level of talking about a specific person is so wrong! Whether she's doing it, whether you're doing it. It's wrong. And the fact that people are still blasting an entire sorority over one girls actions is baffling to me. Would you really trust you're entire rep or sororities rep based off the worst girl that shares your letters? I honestly wouldn't. There's good and bad in all of them!

If she can't stand the heat, she should stay out of the kitchen.

or you should just be a bigger person than this. Y'all are the exact same, you just get to hide behind anonmyity.

Is a different person. All I meant was if you're going to do something, be able to face the consequences and one of those consequences has been people talking about it.

I've been confused about the attention this subject has been getting. Like I said before, I had never read the blog and I don't know this girl. I decided I should really find out for myself, so I found the blog and read back a couple of months. Almost everything on there are pictures or answering questions. When she does mention sororities, it's almost always DG or sorority life in general. I only found one post that was even on topic of other chapters from the last 2 1/2 months and I'm posting it in a reply below this one for everyone to see. I'm not saying she's never said anything about another group, but seems like her mass following would have responded negatively to it. I genuinely do not understand the extremely negative things y'all are saying and I'm honestly wondering if any of it is even true because I've seen no evidence of it. I'm not trying to cause problems here, but I just don't think any of this is fair even if she did say something at some point. I'm going to start a discussion about not going after individual people because it's been happening more frequently and no matter what they did or what sorority they're in it's wrong.. We're better than this.

This is the direct quote from her tumblr and the only mention of another sorority at Ole Miss from the last 2-2 1/2 months:
"you should be so thankful to receive a bid! being in a sorority is an incredible experience regardless of which one you are in specifically. i would have been equally happy in any of the other 9 houses at ole miss, and i have friends in every single one. continue to keep a positive outlook and an open mind. you will find amazing friends and make incredible memories that you will cherish your entire life. your specific sorority does not define you or determine your worth or importance. they are all so great!
being in any sorority at any school is just an awesome experience! you will learn so much about friendship, philanthropy, leadership, balance, hardwork, education, family, and yourself. be thankful for this opportunity you have to be involved in an organization- i promise you will fall in love if you keep a positive attitude and live college to the fullest!"

How can that be the girl if what people are saying is that DG JUST gave her a bid?

According to all the posts this was a girl who posted about stuff during rush about PNMs, wants to be a rush counselor, how leadership has ignored her for a year, etc. That's not a new member and everything to my knowledge was about this specific girl and that's who I quoted.

I posted the first reply and I did not start this post. My main concern is my sister, not DG's reputation. I only said that DG should not have given her a bid because of what she was posting about during rush. What did they think she would post about after? The truth is, Panhellenic and DG ARE watching her now. Why else would she be going easy on her posts?

Sorry some of us haven't been hanging out on this site all summer like goodie two shoes up there and want to find out what we're up against

Exactly. To my knowledge, nothing. I honestly think it's one or a few girls that don't like her (justified or not) and they're attacking her and DG too. It's really sickening that people are doing this and going after those poor Kappa new members that are just too young to know their limits.

What would you do if all this attention was being called to a bad site you had? Delete, throw some bible verses on there and voilà.

That's even sadder.

Seriously! You're on a website basically set up for that, whether intentional or not. YOU dragged this post back to the top! Looks like she is better off without your defense.