my experience as a kappa:
by: kkgdeltarho
I USED to be in this chapter a little over a year ago. I chose the completely wrong sorority. If you are between Kappa and Phi Mu, DDD, KD, Alpha Phi, possibly DG, choose them over this chapter of Kappa. I have never felt so disappointed and shocked in my whole life then when I saw the real Kappa after recruitment was over with. After the show was over and I accepted my bid, the fake smiles and fake sisterhood were shown in clear, true color. Never in my life did I have girls sit down with me at lunch and then midway through just randomly get up to go eat with the group of girls who had more likes on Instagram. Why did I have to beg my own "sisters" for a ride somewhere or have to pay them to borrow a pair of ski goggles for a date party or literally any other accessory or clothing?? Why did I hear constant bad mouthing of other sisters every time I sat in the living room to study? As soon as I left, unfollowed on social media by a lot of girls who had pretended to be my "sisters". Just remember, do not get caught up with worry over joining a group based on popularity, looks, or whatever it is you feel the need to be apart of. Be genuine with yourself and with others. LOVE more, it is so much better than hating.
#1 by: Pnm
Honestly I follow kappa on Instagram and everyone says they are the house every girl wants during rush. But it’s funny cuz they aren’t ranked top, and I was wondering why. This makes so much sense now. Of course I’m going to go through recruitment with an open mind. But thank you so much for being real about this because I’m sure a lot of people are scared too. A girl from my hometown (who is a very well known through out our entire town) has endless likes and comments and is literally a walking Barbie, has like 10 comments from ole miss kappa girls on every one of her posts. I feel like this is so transparent.
Commentby: kkgdeltarhoMay 6, 2019 9:36:52 AM
#5 by: Negative
by: kkgdeltarhoMay 6, 2019 6:46:21 PM
Well, I don't know... because this is a greek discussion board? I am making a discussion on my experience with a chapter so PNM's can take it with a grain of salt and in case anyone can relate.
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#6 by: Deal with it
You need to deal with your problems face to face rather than air your dirty laundry in public. Is any sorority at Ole Miss perfect? No. Does every group of girls have problems? Absolutely. Life is full of mean girls who become mean women. Rather than running the other way, you have to learn to deal with things head on. The best way to deal with bullies is to confront them-don't you know that is the best way to silence your critics?
by: AhemMay 21, 2019 9:38:19 PM
She did deal with it head on by clearing her conscience. You don't have to prove her post positive. You could read it and politely respond with your experience. You literally created the shadow of a doubt her post was on point.
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by: MISSMay 7, 2019 4:09:47 PM
And TOTALLY FABRICATED!! This whole site is mostly crap. Get off here and look for a summer job....
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#8 by: ayoooo
like the same idiot responding to all but 2 posts on this thread.
After the show was over and I accepted my bid, the fake smiles and fake sisterhood were shown in clear, true color.
>that's every house hun
As soon as I left, unfollowed on social media by a lot of girls who had pretended to be my "sisters"
>again, this is every house. it's may 8. keep track of those who graduate. see all their likes disappear. maybe you won't because they'll delete their instagram before the likes disappear to save themselves the embarrassment
by: Awkward May 21, 2019 9:35:01 PM
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by: kkgdeltarhoMay 6, 2019 8:48:44 AM
What would be the point of this being a troll post? another example of how shallow y'all are. This is the first time I am getting this off my chest because I think things like this are important to hear when Instagram is the only thing PNM's see. I have given specific instances and I can say a whole lot more. I had some good times and met a few great girls in this chapter but the negativity outweighed the good for me by so much. Why do you think so many girls have transferred?
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