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by: Scared    

Hey guys! So I am transferring from a CC. I will be a junior this year and have always wanted to be in a sorority. I have heard from quite a few people that I will have less houses to choose from. I don’t mind and I really hope to find a group of girls I can become life long friends with. I want to be very involved with the philanthropy side of things.i have a 4.0 GPA, am a member of PTK and have received various awards for academic success at my CC. I’m just scared I won’t get a bid anywhere. Will I or should I just not rush at all? And if I did, what sororities would be more likely to accept me? Sorry this is long!! Thanks!!!

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#1by: Hey   
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I would definitely go through with rush. Make sure you gets your rec letters and stuff turned in. You’ll most likely only have lower tier options but that’s not really a bad thing and you can definitely find a good sisterhood and philanthropy in every sorority. Theta and ADPi are going to be your best bets. If you have any friends or good connections you might be able to get something else but it will be hard.

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#2by: Goforit   
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I think they like taking girls as freshmen so they have them for four years. If you are discriminated against because you’re a junior then I wouldn’t want to join one anyway.

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#3by: Good luck   
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Go through recruitment, get your recs. There should be a place for you.

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#4by: Try   
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Wouldn't it be better to at least try instead of being too scared to rush? Get your recs for all houses and give it your best shot.

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#5by: hm   
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i'd rush.

you never know and you don't want to live in regret.

but obviously have realistic expectations. very few takes sophs and even fewer consider juniors. plus most friend groups are formed already.

nonetheless i hope you get in and if you do i am willing to bet you'll like it

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by: me   

hm posted:

"but obviously have realistic expectations. very few takes sophs and even fewer consider juniors. plus most friend groups are formed already."

You will be very limited your chances as a junior, but I too would encourage you to rush...there could be a place. But the above poster makes another solid point: most friend groups are already formed and your pledge sisters will be almost all freshmen, maybe a few sophomores so consider that you'll be in a different place maturity-wise and perhaps in other ways from them. I pledged as a sophomore and while I connected with many of my sisters, I was definitely in a different place than them since they were first time away from home, some wanted to go wild now that they were at school etc.

It can be done, just be prepared for both rush and the reality of being in a house if you get a bid. And I do wish you good luck.

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#6by: .   
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It is very different rushing as a junior from a CC. Your grades hold a lot more weight because they show more of how you are academically in college than in high school. Your high school stuff then isn't really looked at. But you are at a disadvantage because you are two years older than the people in your pledge class and you will only be a paying member for 2 years.

Overall, I would rush if it is what you want to do. I think you will be successful as long as you have gotten recs and stuff and have good grades and social skills, etc.

Where you will end up will depend on many factors, daily what connections you have and if you are a legacy. If you have lots of friends on the inside pulling for you, you should be fine. But if you don't know anyone at all, it is going to be a little harder.

My best advice is to do your homework and keep an open mind, because you are at a bit of a disadvantage and your cuts might reflect that.

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#7by: Being honest    
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Just go in with an open mind & there’s a good chance you’ll find your place. Make sure you show interested in EVERY house & not only those you’ve heard more about. There will be houses that most likely will not take a junior, but there are other houses that will. With your GPA & things, it sounds like you’d be an asset, but it would be great to meet as many girls as possible from now until recruitment. When out with friends, take advantage of being introduced to their active friends by being friendly & genuine. Don’t ask them questions about Rush & your chances as a junior because they don’t know and because you don’t want to sound like that. Just be you & make them remember you for being a friendly, confident girl who has her s$&$ together. Look at it this way, all houses lose freshman girls from being immature and going wild or from not being able to make their grades, so you can give them two strong years. Good luck & let us know how it goes!

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