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by: KCL   

Will a nose ring impact a PNM during sorority rush? My daughter has a really good GPA; great activities; and is very talented. She's funny, has lots of friends, and is very pretty. She wears nice, stylish clothing and has great hair and makeup...but she has a small (stud) piercing in one nostril. She just got this facial piercing so it's not in any of her photos sent with her recommendations. I get that she's artsy but I'm not a fan of it. She claims it's not as controversial as I seem to think it is. I suspect she'll look like a great candidate in most every other aspect, but will the small nose stud hurt her chances at some/all of the houses?

Posted By: KCL
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#1by: Active   
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I'd say take it out for recruitment. If I talked to a PNM and she had a nose ring it would effect my judgement negatively, but I'm just one person in one house, so take it with a grain of salt.

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#2by: OM girl   
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Take it out. It would likely affect my first impression of her and since every PNM only has a few minutes to impress a member at each party, why risk that?

Look at this way - it could be distracting for some and you don't want anything to distract from members meeting you.

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#3by: No worries   
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Your daughter is correct, nose piercings are not controversial and lots of students/sorority members have them. She'll be fine on campus. Since recruitment is still considered a more formal event (although dress is casual for the first parts) I would remove the stud or wear a retainer. If she feels very strongly about the piercing she could wear the stud and eliminate the sororities (and their Moms) who would judge her over something so insignificant.

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#4by: Me   
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Agree with @No Worries. The ONLY reason I would suggest removing it because recruitment is on the more formal side -- not because of perception. Your daughter, who sounds intelligent, well put together, and talented, does not need to join a sorority who has members that would judge her based on a small nose piercing. And she should not want to. Recruitment is about putting your best YOU forward. Not the best you that others think is best.

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Perfectly said!

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#5by: Bruh   
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I wore mine all throughout Rush and got my top house. If sororities are cutting u for a NOSE RING they’re wack. She’s gonna wear it after rush so why even put on a front

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by: Yes   

I was going to say the same thing. It's not like a tattoo on her face. Lots of girls have them. If a house would cut you for having one, it's probably not a house you want to be a part of anyway.

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