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by: Active
Dear PNM's:
- Believe it or not, rush is a really emotional time within the chapters too. Each member has her personal favorite pnm's that she absolutely loves and had the best convos with, really made a connection with, and wants to see come back. We fight for you in membership selection, but we never know the final results of chapter voting because only the few on the recruitment team see it. When we get our lists back for a round with the pnm's who are returning to us and don't see one of the names we were really hoping for it hurts so bad.
- We don't know what went wrong, if you dropped us or if our chapter dropped you. There are tears and drama and finger pointing. It's frustrating because the decision is out of our hands, we vote as a chapter and not everyone gets her own way. We get told that we have to pull it together and keep putting on a good rush to find our future sisters.
- So please know that if you fell in love with a chapter and connected with the members you talked to and felt at home, it was real and the girls you talked to felt the same way even if it didn't end up the way we all would have wanted.
#1by: Yes!
Comment#4by: Bump
Exactly. Last year I rushed a girl who I absolutely adored and I knew she loved our chapter as well. Going into sisterhood, I couldn’t find her name on any lists and was absolutely heartbroken. I wasn’t sure how she was dropped, and it turned out to be a glitch in the computer system, but at that point there was nothing we could do. Most of the time you don’t even find out if there was a glitch or if there was a reason at all. You just have to accept that they’re not coming back :/
by: not really
There aren't glitches in the computer system. If you were told that it's not really true. Any glitch would cause total havoc within the entire process and not effect a singular pnm.
A "glitch in the system" is something that is said to avoid confrontation about a released pnm. Either the recruitment team had to make an executive decision on releasing some pnm's to get down to the RFM requirement, or someone doesn't actually understand the process so they just say 'glitch', or once in a while someone has made a human error.
In any case, there's nothing to be done about it and sometimes it's just easier for all concerned to make that excuse instead feeding an argument and stoking emotions that are already raw.
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