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THE TRUTH about informal rush

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RHO GAMMAS ARE ACTUALLY DECEIVING YOU ALL. Informal recruitment is NOT a “second chance” at rush. They make it seem like everyone has a shot which isn’t at all true, and it really sucks because so many PNMs drop formal rush because they’re under the impression that they can get in through informal. I’m sorry but that’s not the case.

Each of the 22 houses chooses whether or not they want to opt in to participating in informal rush. Some do for various individual reasons, but most houses don’t. You will 100% see bottom houses hosting informal rush, most likely they will host open events where all of those interested in joining can attend. If you see a mid, uppermid, or top house participating it is not because they need numbers. It’s because there are a few select girls they want to bid and the only way of extending those bids is opting in to participate in informal. But they are not hosting rush events like bottom houses, they host INVITE ONLY events where they individually reach out to girls, so no matter how much you beg and email them saying you’re interested, you won’t be invited unless they already are interested in you. Having gone through formal rush does give you more chances of being invited, because they already met you and if you impressed them and slipped through the cracks you might get a call or a text.

But there are usually hundreds of PNMs who sign up for informal, but each house (except for bottom) take about 5 girls through informal. TPA, ASA, DPHIE usually take as many as they can.

So I’m very sorry if your rho gamma deceived you and gave you the impression that informal was a good alternative. It’s actually extremely exclusive.

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All of my friends said their Rho gams explicitly told them NOT to do informal

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Good for them but I personally know PNMs who dropped in hopes of getting an invite to the top houses they wanted through informal, which is obviously very unfortunate

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So true. There is a reason its called informal. Formal process is a more straightforward process and you have a higher success rate.

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If you know what you want, and a chapter doesnt choose to want you, put on your big girl pants and either A)keep trying; B)give up and move on without a sorority in your life; or C) change your focus to some other chapter. It's dog-doo simple. Complaining doesn't change the chapter's attitude toward you, except to make them even more glad they didn't choose whiney you.

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the thing is most PNMs don't know what they want, a lot of them are still clouded by clout/popularity syndromes. if a house didn't want you, it could very well be that you slipped through the cracks but it could also very well be that you just don't fit in there and they're doing you a favor

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