i think i’m done

I know it can seem disappointing but if you have any interest, try it out and then in the end you don't have to accept a bid. maybe try today and give it a chance. did your rho gam offer any advice?

If you really are keeping an open mind you’d go to those houses, but you didn’t even bother to hide that your focused on tiers cause you just said “bottom” instead of houses you didn’t click with.

Don't quit. Why do you think the chapters you have remaining are "bottom"? Is it because this website tells you so?? Why do you want to be in Greek life? To have fun? To find a lifelong sisterhood? To meet boys? What are you looking for? Honestly every single house offers all of that and more. If you go and don't make a connection with anyone then you can drop at any time. Dropping now only proves one thing. It proves that you are influenced more by what others think than following through on your goals when you signed up for recruitment.

Think about your alternatives. I have friends that dropped and are happy because they had other clubs and groups. I also have friends that decided to go to houses they were not happy with and love them. I also know people who got in exactly the house they wanted and are miserable. A similar number of girls drop from top and middle houses as lower. A house won’t make you happy but it does give you a way to meet more people.