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what do i do???????

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The only houses I have left are ones that I could never see myself in. Should I drop recruitment, or stick it out and see if I like it?

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#1  by: Idk   
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This is hard one, I think it comes down to how much you value being part of Greek life here. Maybe you can find a fit still in houses left?

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by: IUJan 17, 2020 5:43:10 AM

Start over again, looking at the houses who want you with a fresh eye.
It’s a brand new recruitment for you—give it a chance.

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#2  by: Uh   
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How do you know after two rounds of conversations? You've met like 1% of the house. Give them another look, its amazing how peoples views change when their options are limited.

Even if you go all the way through to bid night, nothing says you have to go to initiation. You might be surprised if you give it more time.

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#3  by: Stick it out   
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Sisterhood and preference round are where you really get to know the chapter better. I’d say stick it out and finish the process! Just because you didn’t like a chapter right off the bat doesn’t mean they’re not where you’re meant to be, stay positive! You can always drop after pref

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#4  by: nothing to lose   
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Go this round and see what it's like. You lose nothing by finishing the process. You can go to pref and NOT sign a card if you do not feel like you could be happy in the chapters you attended.

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#5  by: surprised   
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a pmn who already has their list this morning?

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by: Not Sue HeckmanJan 17, 2020 9:37:46 AM

My thoughts exactly

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by: surprisedJan 17, 2020 9:44:06 AM

this was a fake post

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#6  by: yuh   
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Same thing happened to me going into pref. I was devastated. I’m a senior now and my best friends are from my chapter that I never thought I’d be in. Stick it out.

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by: yepJan 17, 2020 9:38:10 AM

great advice and have heard lots of girls say this too, give it a chance!!!

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#7  by: ..   
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Don't be a quitter. Put your ego in check and keep pressing on. If you attend your pref parties and don't feel it, don't sign your bid card. That would make you eligible for a snap bid or informal recruitment (if a chapter you liked doesn't make quota). Good luck.

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by: okkkJan 17, 2020 9:39:43 AM

^^^^^^^^^^^^ truth

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