reality check for pnms

I understand that most people can't find their crowd during freshman year but PNMs really gotta chill out with making decisions based on fraternities. Are you really joining a sorority based on frat boys' opinions? Who even cares??? Boys graduate, frats get kicked off, and all that really matters is those girls you're spending the next 3 years of your life with. Don't go through rush for the wrong reasons. Boys don't define you and they don't define a house. Recruitment is for girls and by girls, leave the boys out.