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So I’ve been going to houses and honestly I know I’m not the greatest at opening up right away, does anyone have any advice on how to naturally take the conversation past surface level stuff? I don’t want to have only surface level conversations so would appreciate some advice. Thanks!

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#1  by: Info   
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Ask girls what they love about their chapter. Why did they join? How has being in their chapter impacted them? What have they learned about themselves from being in a sorority? If you're interested in leadership roles ask about their experiences with that. If you want to have leadership experiences, but not necessarily have an elected position what types of opportunities are there? Talk about the chapter's philanthropy and about the events they do. Ask if the philanthropy has any special meaning to the person your talking to. Just a few suggestions.

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#2  by: hi   
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Don’t treat it like an interview & answer one question after another. Ask them questions or try to turn questions into conversation starters

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#3  by: myadvice    
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Try to think of a few things about yourself that you want to talk about. Hobbies or passions or funny stories and then try to find ways to bring them up. Not unnaturally if they don’t fit, but this really helped me when I went through recruitment because instead of just answering questions as they come at you, you already have some quality content ready to go. Recruiting on the other side, I can tell u it helps when pnms have cool stories or just unique things they’re excited to talk about because it makes them a lot easier to remember than just talking about majors and dorm life and whatever else. Good luck:)

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