advice for pnms

my biggest piece of advice is: do not base your decisions mostly on frats, pairings, parties, etc. of course we’re all here to make friends and be social, but keep in mind that you’re going to be living with the girls in the sorority you choose, sharing bathrooms, rooming for at least 2 years, having all 3 meals of the day with them, studying together and most importantly doing philantropy and sisterhood events with them. If you don’t like the girls and joined because of their pairings, life is going to be hell for you. If you’re not about the sisterhood and the girls in that chapter, you’re just dead weight for them and you’ll hate living there (I’ve seen so many cases). You’re supposed to be there for them, and they’ll be there for you. Believe me, frat parties get old. Go with your gut and with how you felt when you visited a chapter.