conversation tips for pnms!
by: helpful
for any PNMs worried about recruitment conversations this article has some good advice: link probably gonna be below since greekrank won't let me post it
good luck ladies!
Commentby: You must be in phi muDec 28, 2019 7:47:07 PM
Lol not true at all. I had a funny story about a boy that I told at a lot of houses, and got asked back to all of them. If partying comes up don’t freeze up and be like “we’re not supposed to talk about it” bc obviously if they brought it up they don’t care. Only houses with a stick up their ass aka bad ones will cut u for talking about those things. Now obviously don’t just bring up how much money you have, but just act normally.
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by: ^Dec 28, 2019 8:17:45 PM
Honestly this thought process got me cut from houses!! My rho gam (who ended up being in ASA... lmao...) told us NEVER to talk about this stuff, so when a house brought it up I genuinely thought they were testing me and really avoided it, probably looked like a total loser during recruitment because of it. Just have natural convos!
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by: ^Dec 28, 2019 8:48:33 PM
Ok Rho Gams should not be allowed to be in houses like asa or dphie, they probably give terrible advice to their girls
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by: @^Dec 28, 2019 9:00:00 PM
by: Lol noDec 28, 2019 9:02:03 PM
@ the second comment, “honestly”- stfu u must have had an AWFUL rush and be one of the people who complains it’s bc u didn’t have “money or connections to get in” no honey that ain’t it
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by: honestlyDec 28, 2019 9:06:25 PM
No i actually think it’s because i had bad convos, i really trusted my rho gams advice when she said not to talk about it, she actually told us we could get kicked out of rush for bringing anything like that up. So I really tiptoed around it. Had nothing to do with connections or especially money because I’m tbh very well off. Just had awful convos because I felt like I was being “tested and baited”, something my rho Gam told me. I don’t agree with the fact that all girls from those houses would be bad rho gams though!!! At all. That was a total stretch... mine just happened to suck haha.
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by: @honestlyDec 28, 2019 9:23:28 PM
Thank you for clarifying. Your Rho gam was right at the time you could’ve gotten kicked out of recruitment if a sister reported you but this year the rules have changed and you’re allowed to talk about those things now
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by: helpfulDec 28, 2019 10:13:32 PM
ht tps :// www.gettingthebid . com/ blog/ 5-tips-on-how-to-have-better-conversations-during-sorority-r ecruitment
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