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best advice for all pnms for recruitment

by: panhel

There’s been a bunch of “dear PNMs...” posts lately but if you’re going to take any advice listen to this post!!

You’re going to go to 22 different chapters within a couple days and I don’t care how good you think your memory is, you will not remember how you feel about every one of them. Don’t even try to remember.

Before you even go to the first house, make a list of every chapter in your notes on your phone. After you leave each chapter write down how you felt while taking to girls there and the vibe you got from them overall. Even if it’s just a “meh” make sure you put something down. This will help you keep track of how you really felt before talking to other people and having other opinions try to change your mind.

My rho gam told me to do this and it honestly helped so much

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#11  by: sorority cat   
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Bump!

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#12  by: For sure   
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And I promise.....out of those 22 houses there are 10-14 that will be a good fit for you! And remember it takes TIME to develop friendships. They won’t happen over night. They might not happen until junior year. Have fun.

By: For sure
by: LmaoDec 29, 2019 9:53:59 AM

Girls have been guaranteed a spot for at least the last two years you know

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by: no they haven’t.Dec 29, 2019 2:41:19 PM

I had two girls on my floor that stuck it through to the end of recruitment and ended up not getting a bid from either of their prefs. This year each chapter has quotas so that every girl can get in one way or another. I think it’s bs because chapters should not be forced to accept girls that they do not like or that could be a risk for them just because “everyone gets a bid”

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#13  by: Yup   
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Bump!

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#14  by: This   
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Bump!

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#15  by: bump   
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Bumpndnd

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#16  by: Forreal    
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Bump!

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#17  by: IU   
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BUMP!!!!

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#18  by: INDY   
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BUMP, BUMP, BUMP!!

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