informal

Other sororities that are participating in informal or COB have already either given out the rest of the bids they wanted to or have contacted the woman they potentially want to add to their chapters. I’m not really sure what sororities you’d contact as they’ve either concluded their informal process or have already reached out to the woman they want to talk to.

Completely agree with the above. I'm in a house that did a closed cob/informal. Basically, unless we invite you to join via cob (vs you reaching out), you have no chance. I don't mean to be rude but it's not like we have a lot of spaces so we go with girls we already know.

I'm sorry you thought you were too good for dphie and asa. Regardless of the crap on GR, my house thinks very positively of them. And we certainly don't like to take girls who think they're too good for any of IU's houses.

I have a strong suspicion after checking out social media that even though DphiE's official informal recruitment is over, they would be open to interested women reaching out.

i think people forget (or are unaware) that you could accept a bid from any of the places during informal and give it a try. Drop if it isn't for you, and rego through recruitment next year which you would probably do anyways. This way you're just giving something a try and not wasting an entire year. Each of these sororities are great, and I know you say you don't see yourself there but you may just not have talked to the right people. Dphie has a great chance with a new house and you could try to make it what you want,ad ASA won the sisterhood award at GAAP, you never know what you might find.