chi omega- we deserve an answer
by: Alum97’
What happened with XO and why is NO ONE commenting on it. A bunch of alums are in a group chat and we find it despicable that we are not being told! Some of us have daughters rushing this year. Our legacies are ruined. Not to be told until Sisterhood round and have their entire Rush experienced ruined. Making our girls have to go to the Panhellenic office when they ranked and sign something is demoralizing. IU and the Panhellenic and Chi Omega owes us more of an explanation. Cease and Desist. Unbelievable
#1by: IU
You don't deserve anything at this point. There is something being investigated and the people or issue being investigated should be kept quiet to protect those that may actually be innocent of any wrongdoing or having their names or reputations dragged through the mud if they did nothing wrong.
In this country we have things like rights of the accused, rights of the victim, rights to privacy. I'm not aware of any right to know because I feel I am entitled to know as an alumni. Not a legal scholar but pretty sure that's not in there.
I'm sure in time what happened or didn't happen will come out. Clearly, National feels something serious happened to put a C&D in the middle of rush. I hate it for all the girls, both actives and PNM's impacted but there is nothing that can be done and people just have to wait until the investigation is over and a decision is made.
Commentby: Iu
Sounds like you may need to be the one who needs to grow up. Takes a reel adult to call a bunch of college students names. Sorry you chapter has caused you so much pain. You may want to see if your company has an EAP program you can use to help you through this.
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by: Alumae also
Didn’t call anyone names IU. In fact, you’re the one who is argumentative and clearly is entitled and hostile. I already have worked over 25 years in my field. I have a job. One that pays benefits and contributes to a pension. Perhaps wisen up and stop your attitude. Someone merely asked questions and was attacked. If that’s your modus oeprandi you won’t get very far.
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by: Lola
“Rights of the accused rights of the victim”? Girl it’s a private organization not the US government. It can opperate how it pleases and piss off as many alums along the way. Literally the Tridelt fiasco just happened and they all reacted the exact same way kicking and screaming about how it wasn’t fair.
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#3by: Here comes da fwap fwap
Would you rather they have pulled a Tri Delt and let your “DDs” start pledging and then pull the charter in March? The only reason they had to go to the Panhel office was to be told Chi O would not be on their schedule not to be “demoralized.” I hope that you all told your daughters to continue with rush and find a sorority they felt at home in - if they are Chi O material, then surely any chapter would welcome them. Or are you more concerned with “your legacy” than your daughter’s happiness?
by: Alumae also
None of us were concerned where our daughter’s would wind up as their is no guarantee—- we are concerned about the legacy of our sorority... the one we all donate to and provide positions and internships and jobs to. That is what we are concerned about.
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#4by: Alumae also
Let us all be clear- we as alums are concerned with the legacy of our sorority. We understand fully that our daughters have other options and hopefully it works out how they like. What we do not like is not knowing what happened. We ARE entitled to know as we have invested heavily to Indiana and to the chapter. We ARE professionals who graduated from Kelley and provide internships to those at IU and positions upon graduation. It is clear from various incidents over the course of the last 5 years at least, Panhellenic has issues controlling their houses. It’s ok, we already have spoken to those in the know, and truthfully- if you are suspected of something, the law does not protect your name. Go and do some research ladies. Also, if you’re a member of an organization that does such horrible things and YOU didn’t know about it, it speaks volumes to your sense and sensibility. Wisen up ladies- as employers of major top Accounting, Business and Consulting firms we have people who specifically research this stuff on every single one of our potential hires. So don’t give any of us your holier than thou nonsense. We know a lot more than you.
by: Iu
Then use you high powered elitist resources to figure out what happened. Instead you come to an anonymous website and expect answers. Sorry, but your “we know more than you” statement doesn’t seem to be true in this case or you would already know the answers.
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by: Alumae also
I guess you didn’t read- the earlier alum asked the question. We already have found out later. Truthfully- the Panhellenic at I Diana with all its sanctions and problems in the last 5 years should be reorganized. You’ll never be hired with your attacking attitude and holier than thou attitude. Grow up.
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by: Wow. Just wow.
by: Iu
Holier than thou? Are you looking in a mirror and talking to yourself? This has to be one of the funniest things on here. I feel very sorry for you that this is this dominating of an issue. I really hope you find the help you need. Peace and Love.
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by: Alumae also
None of us are holier than thou. We are invested members. Maybe one day when you pay for things and give your time and commitment and support to something you’ll understand . Holier than thou comes from you as you have mom and dad pay your way and support your every love. Millennial problems.
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by: Iu
Seriously, call you HR department and ask about the EAP program. They have counseling you can call and it’s usually free. And by the way, every assumption you are making about me is wrong. My dad passed away years ago and my mom doesn’t pay a dime of my living expenses. Sorry for all the pain you are experiencing I hope you find the help you need.
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by: Alumae also
Perhaps that is the attitude your parents should take. These Alums do deserve answers. We received them. We understand and truthfully any of you that are part of any house that partakes in any activities that causes a cease and desist should realize your liability. No one is immune. Ignorance is not an excuse according to the law. Perhaps they should teach that at your Member Meetings.
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by: Tom Cruise
For some reason I have a strong desire to go watch A Few Good Men.
“I want the truth!” ....
“You can’t handle the truth!!!”
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#6by: GC
Jesus is this where the crazy gets let out? To think some of you look and act totally normal outside of this website and not like the rabid animals you sound like now.
I agree that yeah the policy is obviously being enforced across the board now (IE Tridelt and now XO) however, you realize you’re grown adults berating 20 year olds anonymously on the internet? What’re you gonna do, follow all the other chapters around now and rat them out if you feel slighted?
Maybe with a second chapter feeling repercussions for their actions will get it through everyone’s heads after rush that it’s time to shape up.
by: Iu
They are hurting and this is part of the grieving process. I hope things work out for the chapter. Never like to see anyone of the Greek community hurting.
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by: Lola
I’m legit so confused by this. Chi O clearly churning out quality women since this lady has been around.....
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by: Alumae also
Grow up and understand that we do deserve answers. Oh and you’re not a lawyer and clearly do not know how things work. The Attorneys around me who just read this laughed at your response. Another Millenial who thinks they know it all.
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