is it true aphi only cares about looks?

Kinda. Alpha Phi definitely places more emphasis on looks than anything else. That's sort of their thing. Not even just at U of A, but at most schools where they have a chapter. They seem to have the same rep everywhere. Pretty girls who aren't very smart or interesting. Not saying A Phi doesn't have some smart or interesting girls, but they care WAY more about looks than anything else, which in my opinion is pretty sad. Alpha Phi is just known for being hot and popular, which may be fun for your freshman year, but there's a reason why they have the highest drop out rate and smallest senior classes year after year. No sisterhood and no substance. Just good looking girls who only care about being top tier.