sorority rush

unless you are super hot. then you're golden with the bare minimum

This is so true! And my story is actually similar to the one above. I ended up joining a "good" house and I'm quite happy with where I ended up, but because I completely shut out the idea of joining those bottom houses, I always wonder now what it would be like if I ended up in one of them. During rush, its so easy to get caught up in wanting to join a top house. Lets face it, Alpha Phi puts on a much better rush than Tri delt. (I'm not in APhi just saying) But that doesn't mean they're better. There's so much more to sorority life than being swooned by a house during rush.

I'm going to say something that I would never say in real life, but I hear girls in houses like tri delt/adpi/chio talk about how much they love their sorority WAY MORE than girls in my house do. I still love my sorority with all my heart, but part of me wonders what I'm missing out on. I'm only saying this because PNMs should know that as long as you're rushing because you want a sisterhood, you will find that in ANY house as long as you have the right attitude.

I agree about theta, two girls in my hall were in theta and they were completely terrified to go to the house even for lunch without the other one because they didn't know anyone and the older girls were mean. I know two girls don't account for the entire sorority but I think that does say a lot.

Like they said........let's STOP naming houses with good/bad sisterhood. I am in one of the other top three houses and I adore it and my sisters. There is not one sorority that has 100% everyone gets along. That is impossible with hundreds of girls. That doesn't mean there is drama all the time and people hate each other though. The fact that guys are even commenting on this and getting involved in which house has the best sisterhood is LAME and it's probably not even really frat guys just girls trying to make their house look the best. Every house has great girls and every house has sisterhood. I for one have heard a Pi Phi talk about how she feels like she isn't close to anyone in her PC and how everyone is really cliquey. These few girls tell someone outside of their house how they feel and that's how the no sisterhood rumors start. That's why you have to join the house you fit in and make and effort or else you'll end up feeling this way. Every house has a few girls like this though and every house has girls who wouldn't want to be in anything else. It's all about the effort you make and if you follow your gut. Nobody really knows what their house is like unless they are in it.... so shutttttup because everyone is going to be biased and there wouldn't be girls in any of the houses if they had bad sisterhood and the majority girls werent happy

"agreed" youre dumb a lot of girls in a lot of houses get intimidated to go to lunch by themselves. It is intimidating, the older girls always seem so much prettier and they have been in college for at least a year already and in the sorority and have already established themselves. I know girls in every. single. house. who have felt like that. In my house ( not theta ) they encouraged us to come to the house for lunch everyday even if we felt nervous because that's normal and it's a good way to get to know everyone because they knew girls would be intimidated.