look at it this way

Come on everybody. Think about like this. How many old dudes do you know in your town that were in mid tier fraternities in their colleges and are now super successful? Plenty. And the opposite - there are some old high tier frat men that have tanked in business and family. It really just depends on the individual I think. All of the fraternities give guys what they seek - leadership, friends, fun times, etc. Just be thankful you were chosen at all, if that's the path you wanted to take.