Deciding between 2 houses

As someone in a top house, i actually regret it and wish i went with where i felt comfortable. My friends in “lower” sororities are so much more authentic with their friends and i am so much more myself when i am with them as opposed to people in my chapter as i feel constantly judged

Choosing your friends based on status is such a dumb decision. Who cares if a sorority is “mid”

This happened to me i totally understand. Always go where u feel comfortable

go with whatever you liked better. don’t go to the higher ranked one just bc it’s a top sorority.

What/who defines a “top” sorority anyway? Go with how you feel not by what you think other people think-it’s likely not true anyway.

Flip a coin. You will find out what you really think based on your initial reaction. Works every time.

this is a reason I think its not best to check this website during rush. Choose as if you hadn't known the ranks. Nine times out of ten you'd probably chose the mid house, which isn't bad at all in fact even better. Mids don't have the drama/intensity of the tops but still good socials and sisterhood which you might not find in the bottoms.

go with the one you feel more comfortable in. by junior year it won’t matter what sorority you were in. i am in a “mid” sorority as a senior and have friends in both “top” sororities and “bottom”

hey girl i’m telling you rank does not matter at all when your in a sorority. i was in your place last year and thank god i got dropped from my top sorority bid day and got my second option. i know i would’ve never found friends like i did and if i even had the chance to go to any other sorority i wouldn’t. people outside of greek life care more about rank than people within. i am in a “mid” sorority but literally during perf we were all tearing up and crying because of how much we realized we love each other. go where you know you can find genuine friends because in the long run that is the only thing that will matter. trust me

Once ur in a house the rankings seem to melt away and I never even think of them anymore. I’m personally in a “mid” house and I couldn’t be happier