ladies. chill. it will be okay.

Every single post has about the same questions right now, so I'll be straight up. Every sorority has girls who go out and girls who don't. Different chapters have different vibes, but you will most likely be in a pledge class of 50+ girls and you will find your people wherever you go. Go to prefs. Ask your questions about sisterhood and social events. When I rushed, I liked both my pref houses but got my second choice - and it worked out fine.

If you truly cannot see yourself in a chapter and would personally rather not be in greek life your freshman year than be in that chapter, don't write them down. If you think you can see yourself making friends in that chapter, stick with it and give it your best. The truth is that every chapter has its rough patches and every chapter has its good times. You have to put in work to make it work. Good luck with the rest of recruitment! You're almost there!