people think top tier means something

I joined greek life to make friends and happened to join a "top tier sorority" I have had so many people ask me what it's like, and if I'm at a lower tier frat they'll ask why i'm there if I could be somewhere "better." Like what, I am so tired of the social divide between srats and frats. I joined my sorority because I genuinely liked the people I met there during rush. If you're in a lower tier and asking me what it's like to be a part of this group it really isn't appreciated- it does not make me special. We all joined our groups because we connected with the members we talked to. I love my sorority but we are more than our reputation.