pledge brothers.

I'm not gonna say which fraternity I'm pledging, so don't ask. I'm so excited to be so close to joining a fraternity and It's all I've been thinking about since I was like 10. Now I've finally gotten a chance to join one and have brotherhood for all eternity and this one little booger in my pledge class is ruining the experience for me. He's so rude to me and a few of the other pledges when the actives aren't around. I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell the actives or anything because I know how much pledging means to me and I don't want to take the experience away from another guy even if he is a jerkface. And I don't want to be rude to him because he just might be my brother one day, and I want to have a good brotherhood. What can I do to get him to stop being rude to me? How can I get him to start acting more like a brother?