too old to rush

Some houses will take you but you should consider whether you want 18-19 year olds hazing you and acting like they're better than you? If you don't care about that, then give it a shot!

Phi Psi, may they rest in peace, had a 40+ year old member they called "old blue". he'd bang freshman girls left and right and drink a whole bottle of scotch in an evening. Somebody dared him to smoke a whole carton of cigarettes in a weekend and he did it finishing around noon on Sunday and broke open another carton and kept going. He has since disappeared and no one knows where to find him

There was a 21 woman at UAlabama who rushed although she was freshman. She ended up in Pi Beta Phi. Just get through recruitment and don’t be upset if you’re cut by chapters. If you end up with a bid it’s because that house wanted you for a reason. Remember that.

I think it mostly depends what grade you’re in. For example, if you’re 18 but rush as a junior, I think that would still put you at a disadvantage...