Bid decision...

by: Q May 30, 2020 2:19:17 PM

Who actually decides if you get a bid from a sorority? What if you have bad blood with a member?

Posted By: QMay 30, 2020 2:19:17 PM

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#1by: LOL May 30, 2020 7:33:40 PM

then you aren't getting in. if a member has a legit reason they feel you wouldn't be a good fit for the chapter, you will not be receiving a bid.

By: LOLMay 30, 2020 7:33:40 PM

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by: Q May 31, 2020 5:31:44 PM

Ok thanks!

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#2by: I mean May 30, 2020 8:49:37 PM

It really depends on the scale of the issue with a member and whether they’re a current active member in good standing or someone joining with you.

By: I meanMay 30, 2020 8:49:37 PM

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by: Q May 31, 2020 5:32:06 PM

Thanks!

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#3by: just saying May 31, 2020 4:34:59 PM

Some of the recruitment chairs last year were quite unapproachable and intimidating imo.

By: just sayingMay 31, 2020 4:34:59 PM

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#4by: Lol May 31, 2020 4:53:16 PM

If you have bad blood you are not getting in. In most cases anyway.

Typically, the person you have beef with can report it to the leadership/standards team in their chapter and they can measure if it’s a legitimate reason or not. But if a sister is really uncomfortable with you joining, it’s obviously going to be her over you, and you can get blacklisted for it.

By: LolMay 31, 2020 4:53:16 PM