dear troll,

Dear troll,

Have you thought about sending your daughter to a small school where she can get a bid from whatever sorority her heart is set on? She can then transfer to a bigger University, one more to her liking = or your liking)
She will still have to be voted on to affiliate with her sorority at the new, larger school, but unless she is completely awful, the actives are usually very generous and welcoming towards their sisters who are transferring in from other schools.

2nd recommendation: If you choose this option, I recommend your daughter "own it", not hide it.
She can say something like, "Oh my gosh, I have ALWAYS wanted to be a __ __ __!
SMU was brutal, so I decided to go to "Podunk University" to join __ __ __ and I am SO glad I did!!!
---this actually could be a hilarious story! And true!

.......something to think about