Don’t be dumb …

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If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn’t have chosen the sorority I ended up in. I’m not going to name names because this isn’t about bashing anyone, but I made my decision based on where a lot of older girls from my hometown were, not on where I truly felt at home.

I ignored my gut feeling and chose what I thought I was supposed to pick. Looking back, I wish I hadn’t. The house ended up being really cliquey, and because so many of the girls already knew each other, it was hard to break in and feel like I belonged.

Chi O, KD, and Pi Phi would be my pick if I had to do it all over again. My friends in those are so happy and I loved them during recruitment.

So if you’re going through recruitment, let this be your reminder: trust your gut. Don’t base your decision on what’s familiar or where older girls from your high school went. Go where you feel excited, welcomed, and comfortable. That’s where your real sorority story begins.