why i dropped theta after 1 year....
by: oldkatHere's my opinion: When I went to UVA I went Theta. Looking back, I personally regret it. I'm going to be honest. The reason I pledged was because I felt "cool" that I was picked (kind of like "oh the popular girls from high school are accepting me"). I did it for social status. I never felt a real sisterhood, there was a TON of backstabbing (oh, the stories I have!) and was primarily based on looks. If I had to do it over again I would have gone somewhere else. Though other sororities may not be the "hottest" sorority, I always felt others had better sisterhood, were super nice, yet still respected. Now that I have life experience, the superficial stuff doesn't matter in the long run. I felt like I wasted a lot of time and probably missed out on a lot of solid friendships and good people. I don't know if things have changed since then, but I URGE you to go with the sorority you feel the connection with...not the one you think is "Cool". You only have 4 years of college before the real world. These are some of the last best years of your life. Live for that.
Comment#4 by: Hmmm
I smell a rat. Seems like bottom tiers are trying to make choosing a top tier to be a big mistake. I mean, why didn't this girl tell you to bag sorority life altogether? How does she know all sororities aren't backstabbing enclaves for mean girls? From what I know, there is drama in every sorority, even the sweet XO's have a nasty streak. If you aren't wealthy you are going to be miserable in Theta or Kappa. If you want to mix with frats you're going to be miserable in SDT or SSS. If you're unsure then don't rush or wait until informal.
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