regrets on decisions
by: confusedi’m in what most consider to be the “top sorority “ and i’m very fortunate to have had a good rush but is it normal that i’m having regrets thinking i should have gone another way? i’m sure i’ll love the girls but the first night i felt very out of place and am feeling very alone. someone please ease my mind/help
#1 by: im sorry
This is totally normal. I would play it out a few weeks until initiation & see if your mind changes. If not, I would maybe start making friends with girls you connect with who may be in other sororities & drop & rush next year.
If AU in general isn't the right fit, maybe look into another school that has your sorority & transfer into the chapter at that school. Some girls have done that in my chapter.
Comment#2 by: Sara
If you had a good rush and got into a top sorority because of connections or because your mom was in that chapter at auburn, then you may not fit in. I’ve seen it lots of times when girls get into a top one and think it’s going to be great but in reality they don’t fit with the girls and they only got a bid because of their connections. Probably best to join one that’s right for you. Good luck.
by: 2Aug 16, 2020 2:29:25 PM
Agree. This is why rank is total bs. They can’t be that great if after they rushed you , you don’t feel it. There is nothing that puts a house “ top” Instagram ain’t a measurable rule.
Give it a meeting or 2 ... if I’m doubt , drop.
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#3 by: Guest
That's a totally normal feeling that I think most girls go through. I would stick it out these next few months before initiation and see if you start clicking with anyone. But sometimes girls don't click with top sororities which is why they tend to have bad retention rates. Good Luck
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by: YepAug 16, 2020 2:20:49 PM
I agree. That's why tier rankings are dumb cause PNMs don't listen to their heart and just join one which is expected of them or has a higher reputation. This is why you also see pretty girls in low tier sororities cause they cared about their convos they had with the members or philanthropy & didn't chose something based on looks or cause they're a legacy.
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