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Then just drop it, stop complaining online and making top houses look bad. If you think they don't care about you it's probably your problem. It's not their fault when the other 100 something girls fit in but you don't. There's nothing you can do to make them 'care'. Greek life isn't for everyone and clearly is not for you. Wasting time and money being in a place that you don't belong is sad. Don't be afraid to drop out because there's plently more colleges can offer, and you won't lose your real friends.

Everywhere in life is cliques, it's sorority and Greek life. What do you expect? People find their own niche and people they click with. A chapter just usually consists of girls with most of the same values or some sort that each chapter is looking for. Like the person said above, Greek life isn't for everyone. College is what you make of it.

I'm in one of those houses and can 100% say that I've taken care of new girls multiple times. Whether it's picking them up from parties, cleaning up their puke, or being a friend to listen when a close family member passed away, I promise I've done it all! And those examples I'm thinking about were with 3 different new members, so I can assure you that's not the case!