thoughts?

Out of the top houses tri delt seemed the least fake to me .. and they have such pretty members

I'm not the person who wrote that OR a Tri Delt but not every person saying something positive is a self rank. It must be really sad to be so insecure that you perceive a compliment to another person as a threat and can't accept it at face value.

I'm in a house that is "competing" for the same girls as Tri Delt but I know that my house is doing the best that it can and that what girls are meant to be in our house will end up there. If they like Tri Delt because they are "down to earth" or "pretty" or whatever (which they are by the way. I have a lot of friends who are Tri Delts and have a lot of respect for their sorority as well as all the other sororities) then so be it. But just because someone thinks a certain sorority is this or that doesn't mean that they are saying your chapter isn't great and this is the kind of mentality you should have. You shouldnt be uncomfortable with compliments to other people and you should be willing to compliment people when they deserve it. All the sororities on this campus are worthy of praise.