interactions
by: .This might be a stupid question but do top and top-mid fraternities/sororities still associate with ones towards the bottom? I'm in a bottom-mid and I really just wanna be friends with everyone
#1 by: Unfortunately
Commentby: Unfortunately Aug 28, 2015 3:58:54 PM
I definitely agree to above, but it definitely happens and even though it's polite "sorority etiquette" to stick with your fraternity pair, I've been told by some guys they really don't care if you visit
- 0
- 1
by: AlsoAug 28, 2015 4:03:32 PM
Definitely agree with above. Be respectful of other houses and shy away from spending all your time at one house, especially if you don't know many people there. I can't tell you how many girls unknowingly label themselves as desperate groupies by spending virtually all their spare time at XYZ.
- 1
- 0
#2 by: Depends
For certain events - socials, game days, homecoming - sororities and fraternities pair up. Those are then limited to the invited chapters.
However, there are open parties, date functions, and philanthropies where people mix it up more. Houses of all types participate in one another's philanthropies. Plus, chapters tend to pair up for Dance Marathon in ways that aren't the same as for socials.
You also get to meet people in things like student government, other clubs, etc who are Greek. Don't stress about it. There will be certain chapters that your house tends to hang out with more than others, but besides invite-only events, there's no rule against socializing!
by: Don't worryAug 29, 2015 11:19:45 AM
This is a good post. You'll tend to see large groups of matching tiered houses, but a lot of that is inertia. You have homecoming or a lot of events, you make friends and keep coming around. But for example on a road trip you'll basically see at least one girl from like 12 different houses, nobody is breaking up or resisting a relationship or friendship because of letters. (Except pike)
- 1
- 0
by: EekkAug 28, 2015 4:27:21 PM
by: LolAug 28, 2015 5:01:41 PM
by: TrueAug 30, 2015 7:53:46 PM
#4 by: dont be too discouraged
I'm in a middle and my boyfriend is in a top. Yes our chapters don't have things together, and yes socials and paired functions are a no no to go to, but I'm still a frequenter of their parties and I've been to all the date functions. Gameday everyone hops around but usually waiting an hour or a little more before you go elsewhere is etiquette.
by: Talk about puerileAug 28, 2015 6:49:35 PM
Talk about puerile "ddd" poster, you've spent all day posting the same statement on nearly every thread and no one has responded or engaged you. Grow up and get a life. Isn't there more productive and positive things you could be doing? Everyone knows this site is generally superficial, not a representation of Greek life as a whole but rather a mere sliver of it. I'm assuming your not a ddd but if you are you are embarrassing them. Just like we tell all our girls, Get off this site! No good comes from it.
- 4
- 3
by: dddAug 28, 2015 7:00:10 PM
No one has responded? LOL. I get 10 thumbs up for every thumb down! So, many are listening and agree with me! Thanks for playing!
- 2
- 7
by: SadAug 28, 2015 7:02:09 PM
"Ddd" you make me very sad with all your negativity. You don't sound like any of the Greek women I know.
- 5
- 3
by: LolAug 28, 2015 7:05:24 PM
by: yesAug 30, 2015 7:59:13 PM
Post Reply
Before you type: Remember, do not post names, initials, or any derogatory content.
YOU MAY ALSO LIKE
Didn't find your school?Request for your school to be featured on GreekRank.
by: Warning Aug 28, 2015 3:55:13 PM
Be careful when it comes to "hopping around". You don't want to be seen as rude or feel completely out of place for crashing other houses' events.
- 1
- 2
Report