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I know to stay off of this site and not talk but we all know it's bound to happen. I have one house that is considered "bottom tier". How do they get treated in comparison to a "top tier"? While I personally don't care too much for rank, it's difficult when you are a PNM and people are telling you that you're only option is the "reject" sorority. If people are telling me this when I'm just going through rush, how am I going to get treated if I do get a bid?

Posted By: Curious
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Exactly the same.
Pick the chapter that feels like home to you and that you can see lasting friendships coming from. Having letters XYZ won't keep you out of anything. Your chapter will still hold date functions, away trips, socials, honecoming, sisterhood events, philanthropies etc and you can go to whatever you want of those and others.
Just trust yourself and run HOME on bid day.

By: Old Timer
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With love from the sisters that gave you a bid when all other houses couldn't see you as the shining star you are. What you need to ask yourself is do YOU want to be Greek? This process has been physically and emotionally draining. Can you see yourself doing it again next year? Do you think the results will be different for you given additional time to mature? To answer your question, I have wonderful friends in all "tiers" and I treat them all the same.

By: Me
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Before I rushed, a few of my high school friends who hadn't rushed and weren't going to (and were pretty skeptical of the Greek system) were the very same people going "oh you can't join House XYZ they are the bottom" as if they knew anything. It's like a way of trying to prove they "get" how the hierarchy works while also hating on it. Almost no actual sorority women will talk like that.

By: It's GDIs
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No sorority is a reject sorority. All houses have pretty girls, not so pretty girls, smart girls, not so smart girls, party girls, nerds, etc. No one going to UF is a reject

By: NO
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As a sister of a bottom tier sorority, there is some what of a difference in the social aspect of your sorority life. You will never be on social rotation with the best fraternities and you may go through times where you get no attention from any fraternity. My roommate was top tier and she always had stories of fraternities trying to woo them and we didn't. So if social calendars and fraternities are a big deal then this could be a problem. There also is a social stigma that comes wiTh bottom tier that may make you feel awkward or sad that you are in the bottom sorority. Just trying to keep it honest!

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by: Ummm   

Obviously not a sister anywhere at UF as this is not the case!

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Why do you care? If you love the chapter go for it! Happiness is key

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by: Curious    

I'm not sure if I do love it, that is the case. I just want to cover all bases and doubts because if I pref tonight, I can't do COB or anything.

By: Curious
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by: puzuti   

how can you know if you love the sorority in less than 2 hours total of going to the sorority. This is ridiculous and not being honest.

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You sign the agreement after prefs you can't cob. You can still go and decide after

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By: DISCOUTS
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"I know I should stay off this site.."
There's your answer right there.

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Should my daughter get selected for any house I would be thankful. She is away from her family and very homesick. Do the sorority girls do things together to help new freshman girls adjust to college life

By: worried mom
by: Don't Worry   

She will be so busy with her new chapter. She will have meals at her house everyday, special buddies to help her transition to college and sorority life. Social outings, game day tailgates, date functions, new member orientation, etc. It really helped with my transition to college. Just be ready mom when the phone calls stop! My mom still complains that I don't call her enough:)

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