needs to be said.

Dude get over yourselves. if i can give any girl any piece of advice, it's not to join a chapter just because you think people will value you more and think you're cool by association. News flash: its 2018. People don't live by the "my sorority is better than urs so we can't be friends" mentality anymore. It's no longer about being in a specific sorority and only hanging with those people all 4 years of college (in the real world thats a really bad and exclusive way to make friends), most sororities are really starting to be more inclusive and hang out with each other. You can make friends and hang out with anyone in any chapter, so you don't neeeed to be in the top top chapter (which is HIGHLY disputed even at school, it all comes down to personality preference) to be "cool". You can be cool af in a lower tier sorority and still be cool, and people in all tiers will still like you and hang out with you. You can be weird af in a top tier sorority and still be weird af, and people in all tiers will still think you're weird af.

So go with the chapter you ACTUALLY enjoy talking to and being around. Focus on the CONVERSATIONS you have with people and not how pretty they are, how cool their instagram is, what your high school friends say (branch out, it can be one of the best decisions you make in your life. Make more friends and then you can be friends with their friends), or what tier Greek Rank (a site no normal person in any of the sororities actually uses), dictates as their rank.

I promise you, if you go for sorority A over sorority B because it has a higher "tier" standing, you'll almost definitely regret your decision and miss out on more real friendships with people you actually RELATE to. Its a high school, immature mentality to want to go with the "cool" girls. Didn't we already learn those girls almost always suck anyways?

These are the girls you want to be friends with for the rest of your life, the ones you actually want to like. So go with who you CLICK WITH. Keep an open mind. There is a very high chance you will be disappointed if you go in thinking you're only going to 1 sorority and very surprised with which chapters you actually really like.

Plus in 5 years you're going to laugh (and probably be embarrassed) at how much you cared about what "tier" you were in. It really doesn't matter and gets old v fast