can a more introverted guy join a frat?
by: extro
im more of an introverted kind of person, as in im pretty outgoing sometimes and when i am you could not tell that being around people can exhaust me and i have a lot of anxiety. But thats the reality of it, it takes a while for me to open up (which made rushing hard this year) and i tend to get anxious and overthink a lot.
its like mood swings. one day i will be talking with everyone and the other ill keep to myself. i want to be in a frat, and i've been asked by a lot of people if i were in so clearly at times people see me as a frat guy but thats not me 100 of the time.
That being said I only rushed two houses this year, can i re rush again next term? should I still consider greek life? And no, as superficial as this will sound i dont want to rush a bottom house, sorry.
need opinions
Comment#2 by: Options
Try rushing one of the frats without a house. They have more relaxed expectations. Lots of frats have guys who are quiet etc. you just need to connect with someone. The fact that you said you rushed two and didn’t get a bid is concerning. Honestly, with your mood swings, you won’t want the top houses....too much action/drama. With what you described, There etc is no “bottom” house as far as you are concerned. The goal is to,get in one
#3 by: dutify
absolutely dude. I hear ya and I'm the same way. Sometimes I like to bro out and other times I just need to chill with my beats. Being in a frat isn't 24/7 socializing - we all need to chill sometimes. And even the most social frats have guys who aren't crazy outgoing fanatics. Just step it up for rush and find the guys you feel most comfortable with.
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