grievances within sororitys/frats

What are some of the issues within each of the sororitys/frats? When you're searching for a college, you wanna know what's both good and bad and you outweigh the cons with the pros for your personal taste, so why shouldn't it be the same with picking a sorority/fraternity?

For example, my friend is in a sorority at a different school and there are a lot of frustrations within the group because the exec members don't really listen to their sisters, and I just read on another post that thetas here have a lot of infighting and are more about the outward appearance.

So, be candid and honest, what are the grievances or current concerns within your/your friends organizations? What have you noticed your sisters/brothers dislike? Do you think the pros outweigh the cons? I really wanna have an honest dialogue on here, that isn't about bashing other organizations.