does aphi not realize that pnms choose other chapters

They seem to think that bc everyone goes around calling them top house that every other woman in a sorority here at ASU wants to be one of them. I’m in a chapter that they would call lower tier and I would not like to be one of them. My sisters wouldn’t want to either. Girls that aren’t in APhi are proud of their letters and love their sisters, does APhi really think that everyone actually wishes they were an APhi?