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In HS I was a part of a big friend group of girls that many people in our school considered really pretty, and it was exhausting because the focus as a collective group was always something vain like seeming we were having the most fun or interesting social lives and just general attention seeking.. Halfway through junior year I realized this wasn’t a way of living that made me happy and I felt like I was too far in with this group to break away. When I went through recruitment this year I saw it as an opportunity to finally be a part of group with substance, who stood for things and had real goals. So I told myself I was going to pursue a chapter with girls who I thought were passionate, lived to better themselves for themselves, who’s shoulders I could cry on, who would accept the parts of me that weren’t all that glamorous that I was so used to holding back. Was overall appearance in terms of presentation a factor for me? A little but I think that can be said for everyone going through recruitment.. it just wasn’t huge factor or deal breaker. Anyway after a week of hoping and wishing, l got a bid to the sweetest sisterhood that I could have ever wished for and I couldn’t be thankful for enough and have loved every second with them since. I’m not going to pretend like looks don’t ever matter in life, because unfortunately that’s untrue and pretty foolish to think. However I will say that hanging out with people just because they’re pretty and popular gets very old quickly, and once you find people based on more than vanity it feels really good. It gets annoying when frat guys question what sorority you joined because they think you fit in better elsewhere, but idc i’m happy where i’m at and would never change it