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There are any number of reasons. The most common are things like grades, reputation, recs, and how you come off during the parties (rude, arrogant, uninterested). But the actives know that you are tired and stressed and nervous. We can tell the difference between shy and uninterested. We realize that we aren't going to click with every single PNM. But remember that the entire chapter has a say in who gets a bid. Not just the people you talked to. If you clicked with the other girls, they'll say so. One awkward conversation does not mean that you won't get a bid. Don't stress too much. The third day of recruitment, I talked to the chapter president. I knew it was a good sign to talk to anyone on exec. Except she scared the crap out of me and I was super awkward and nervous and I accidentally said something that offended her a little. I was sure I was going to get dropped. Instead, I got a bid to that house. And the chapter president became my big.