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Poster Name:
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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />wisdom for pnms <br /><br /> Poster Message:
Lovely PNMs: please remember as you open your cards tomorrow that if you are cut, it's not personal. Actually I should say when you are cut bc even the most amazing girls are cut from houses for various reasons. Yes rush is a mutually selective process, but that's only to a certain extent, especially with the stronger houses. Don't think of rush as American Idol, where the contestants are eliminated as their shortcomings become more apparent. In my house, we have to select a very limited number of girls each round. There are so many qualified, awesome girls rushing, but we realistically can't keep them all! I just want you all to understand what I didn't when I rushed-that a cut is by no means a reflection of your self-worth, and I hope you don't take it personally! In the comments I'll make a list of possible reasons why you were not invited back to a house. You'd be surprised! Anyway good luck this week, what's meant to be will be, and be yourselves bc you'll be the happiest these next few years when you end up in the home where you belong!