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Been there

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I would say just don't take anything personally! Sadly, even houses where I thought I had had great conversations/connections at still dropped me the next day, and at the time some of them were really upsetting and disappointing. Now that I've been on both sides, I can tell you that a LOT of your decision to stay in a house is outside of your control (and often even outside the control of the girl(s) you talked to.) Every house can only keep so many girls and they have to draw the line somewhere, especially to accommodate their legacies/in-house sisters/close friends of actives/etc. Many times you could've been great and gotten great scores, but just not quite reached their cutoff. In other words, don assume that if they didn't ask you back it's because they hated you. Just move on, keep doing yo thang and putting forth the most genuine version of yourself you can - and TRUST THE SYSTEM. Most everyone will tell you that it works.