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Poster Name:
Staycalm

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />Please be open to every house<br /><br /> Poster Message:
In light of philanthropy round starting today, I just want to remind PNMs to please keep an open mind. 3 years ago when I went thru rush, I didn’t get any houses back for philanthropy that I wanted. Not a single one. I ended up going to the houses I did get invited back to, and didn’t love any. All of the houses I went to were low mid/ low tier according to this website. Then, during sisterhood, I soon began to really see myself being part of a couple of the houses I went to. At pref, I could easily see myself being a sister in either house, but didn’t know which to pref. I ended up considering dropping after I got my bid, and I’m SO SO happy I didn’t. I have had the absolute best time in my sorority and have made lifelong friends. Never once did I ever feel that my sorority experience was bad due to their ranking on here. My roommate freshman year went OR, and we had equally busy social calendars and equally great experiences. All of the rankings here are subjective. I am so grateful I decided to stick it out after bid day, and I hope any PNM reading this realizes it’s perfectly fine to not fall in love with a house right away. Keep an open mind, put in effort to really get to know the girls and their sisterhood when you talk to them, and don’t think about “ranks” <3