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I agree, but I think what you meant to say is 'discrete' not secretive. Discretion in displaying appropriate behavior at all times, in public and on social media, should be important to everyone, but not everyone gets that. Drawing attention to yourself in a way that could be spun into something negative or invite controversy and criticism, and let's face it anything on tiktok can be that, is not a good idea for anyone. It also shows a self-centeredness, and sororities are about the membership, not the self. If you want the benefits of sorority membership and the association with its name and reputation, you have to contribute to that as a member to hold the standard. "What's in it for me?" is a good question, but not the only question. What do you have to contribute that other members want to be assiciated with?