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Most pnm's get two, but not necessarily the two they were hoping for. Pnm's who don't want to give either house a chance end up dropping and that is what happens to the vast majority of the 7% who don't go to a house, they voluntarily drop. A good number of pnm's get only one for pref, but honestly that takes off the all pressure because you know if you go to that one and put it on your card, you are getting that bid, so that one invitation is as good as a bid; all it takes is one! And yes, a few pnm's end up getting dropped before pref but it is a few, not a ton. And those pnm's who were carried through that 3rd round and didn't get to a pref are the prime candidates for a COB if they will try to keep ties with sisters they connected with there and/or their fellow pnm friends who end up in that house.