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Truth hurts

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Your greek experience is what you make of it. People think that simply getting the bid somehow equals this automatic experience of PERFECT FUN and some go one stop further to think that a bid from specific houses equals automatic perfect fun and from any other house means that it will be less than that simply because of the letter on the house. The truth is, it doesn't matter which house you're with, you have to work at that experience and actively pursue what you want it to be. I'm going to guess that those girls fall into the "if I'm not in house ABC my experience is going to be terrible" camp and weren't really open to anything else even though they said they "tried." No, they didn't. They judged. That's not trying. People like that piss me off because they ultimately took a bid from somebody else who would have been thrilled to be in that house that they dropped out of. I know we say people shouldn't drop out or suicide, but i've never fully agreed with that. If you know deep down that you're not open to other houses, and you get cut, then perhaps we should encourage those girls to drop, not "hang in there." If they get to pref with that desired house and one other, and they know they ONLY want that house, then perhaps they SHOULD suicide and not take the spot from somebody else. I know that's an unpopular opinion, but I want people who want my house Not people who say "i'll give it a shot but I don't really like you for superficial reasons that have no basis in anything." Why should a house waste their time on people like that?