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Everyone invited to pref is on the bid list somewhere and can end up being a sister. This is uppermost in the actives' minds. So the final decisions at this point come down to two things: 1) if they can see a pnm being the BEST fit with the chapter based on personality and connecting well with them during rounds, and 2) do they feel that the pnm TRULY wants them. As already stated, if you want them TELL them. Don't sound desperate but be very clear that you want them. And Pnm's, there is no 'she's not good enough for us' going on when these cuts are made; it is numbers and the two things previously stated. There's NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU when you get released for pref.